My son and I don’t have much that we can do together. We finally found something that he loves and I am happy to do. In our house the kids have to play a sport and do a social after school activity. My son is I no way sporty but gel basting was the one thing that he loved that was social and got him out of the house to have fun. He followed the rules and didn’t play with his gun out in public. Always carried it in a box when travelling to the gel blaster fields.